If you have chosen a midweek wedding purely for a financial benefit then I would explain that to your inlaws who may well offer to make up the difference if you so wish. If people are finding it difficult to attend during the week then I would do a poll of how many of the really important guests would attend if it stayed midweek before you pay any deposits, then make your descision.

This is a very awkward dilemma for you but you must remember that it is your wedding day (and also your budget!) Stick to your guns, you will soon find that the people who care about you both, will not hesitate to take a day off work to see you get married. Sit down and explain to your families that your budget does not stretch to a Saturday wedding and that you feel that families and friends should be able to give up one day at work for your special day. Good luck.

This is a tricky one, I don't think parents understand just how expensive venue charges are on a Saturday. I have a couple of suggestions. 1. Have you considered getting married on a Friday? This way guests need only take the Friday off work and can enjoy themselves without worrying about getting up for work the next day. 2. Once you have decided on the date and venue I would send 'Save the Date' cards or flyers to all guests so they have plenty of time to book the day off work. 3. If you do decide to get married on a Saturday it is normally considerably cheaper after October so this could be a compromise. Good luck and remember this is YOUR wedding day, you must do what is right for you and the future Groom!