Your partners main role as an usher are as follows: IN THE RUN UP: Assist the bestman with the organisation of the all important stag night Be available for suit hire fittings ON THE DAY Ensure you arrive at the church/venue well the before the guests Greet guests as they arrive and hand out 'Order of Service' Assist with seating guests in the appropriate places Assist moving guests from the Church to the reception Look after the bridesmaids During the dancing make sure the bridesmaids/mothers etc have someone to dance with At the reception, the best man really takes over and the ushers should be able to relax!